About - Mission

Hello,

I am Braden Harvey’s mom. We were so delighted to have found YO. It has made a difference in our family and in Braden’s life. He has a place to go and be himself and we as a family are so thrilled and excited for him. I sometimes cannot contain myself, especially when I hear how he has made so many friends…..when before YO he would complain that he had no friends. So it truly makes a mother happy to see her son thriving and knowing that he is not alone. So thank God for YO, and all those that have made it possible. In supporting my son, as we are very close, I thought that perhaps I could be of some assistance in any way if needed and would very much love to be apart of something that is and has truly been a blessing in my son’s life.

Thank you so much for your time.

Sincerely,
Lorene Savage

Parents

FAQs

  • Q: Can I attend a YO meeting with my child? Do I have to bring a parent?

    A: No. Youth OUTright was created to be a safe space for youth ages 14-20 only. They need a space that is confidential, welcoming and based on a peer-only model. This is a social environment in which LGBTQ child can flourish. We encourage you to positively communicate at home regarding LGBTQ issues, because it is important for them to have a clear, open line of communication between parents and children.
  • Q: How do I talk to my child about gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender issues?

    A: We encourage open, balanced discussions at home at a time that’s right for you. Remember to listen with an open mind, ask questions to understand, and don’t be offended if your child or parent doesn’t communicate everything to you immediately. If you feel uncomfortable talking to your child or parent at home, try making an appointment with a local mediation center or getting together with a member of PFLAG or Parents, Families, and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (http://pflag-chapter-map.herokuapp.com/) together as a family.
  • Q: How do I know if a meeting is cancelled?

    A: We will change the meeting status on the meeting schedule on the website, post an announcement on our Facebook account, and tweet. Unless we can help it, meetings will never be cancelled, but it is a good idea to sign up for meeting updates via Twitter or check the web site frequently.
  • Q: Can parents enter the building at the end of the meeting?

    A: No. In order to respect the privacy and confidentiality of the youth attending the meeting, we ask parents, guardians and others providing transportation to please wait outside in their cars until the meeting is over. Sunday meetings end at 6:00 p.m.
  • Q: Can youth come to a meeting if they don’t identify as gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender?

    A: Yes. We encourage all questioning youth and straight allies to attend.
  • Q: Can you recommend other local resources?

    A: Please visit our Resources or contact us so that we can make recommendations that fit your situation.
  • Q: How do you recruit volunteers and group facilitators?

    A: Volunteers are recruited on an ongoing basis. All volunteers must fill out a volunteer form and have a brief informal phone interview with the Volunteer Coordinator or the Executive Director. Youth meeting facilitators must complete a volunteer form, have a brief informal phone, attend an orientation session, and are subject to an official background check.

Meeting Information

Youth Outright offers several free and confidential Discussion Groups that serve youth ages 11-13 and 14-20. These groups offer a welcoming and friendly atmosphere where LGBTQ youth can feel safe expressing their true selves. Trained adult volunteers are on hand for all groups to ensure that meetings are safe and that youth feel supported. For more information about each, please check out our calendar of events.
CLICK HERE FOR A FULL MEETING SCHEDULE

  • Meeting Location

  • Driving Directions

    Directions to the First Congregational United Church of Christ (FCUCC, 20 E. Oak Street, Asheville 28802)

    From the West:
    Take I-240 East to the Charlotte Street Exit (5-B)
    At the top of the exit ramp, turn right onto Charlotte Street
    At the next light turn right onto College Street
    Take your first right onto Oak St.
    FCUCC is on your left (20 Oak St.)

    From the East:
    Take I-240 West to the Charlotte Street Exit (5-B)
    At the light, turn left onto Charlotte Street
    At the second light turn right onto College Street
    Take your first right onto Oak St.
    FCUCC is on your left (20 Oak St.)

  • Parking Information

    Parking for Sunday youth meetings is available at the following:
    • The small parking lot directly behind the church.
    • Beside the church in the bank lot (south). This is the best place for people with mobility issues since the accessibility entrance is on this side of the church.
    • Handicapped parking is also available on the street in front of the church.
    • Next door In the Preferred Properties Realty lot (north).
    • On the street or in the county health department’s large lot (further north).
    • Please do NOT park at One Oak Plaza or in any lots belonging to the First Baptist Church across the street — you may be towed.